What makes it safe to honestly share and reveal your flawed human self is the feeling that all feeling-parts will be received and accepted. Honest sharing happens, when there is hope to feel seen, heard, felt and cared for.
Ego can be like a dictator who wants to control disliked feeling-parts, but the Soul, because She flows through all parts of self simultaneously, has the capacity to receive and embrace your whole human and divine self, integrating and connecting all parts.
Disconnected parts will wander anxiously inside you. They don’t like to feel controlled and often resist authority, because authority has let them down before. Honest Sharing happens in a non-threatening environment where the Soul is invited and allowed to care for you.
If your goal is to accept and connect neglected, rejected, denied, abandoned and disowned parts of yourself, so you won’t strive for perfection but will seek to feel whole instead, you are in the right place.
Your willingness to see, hear and feel all parts with Soul’s eyes and your commitment to meet each part with unconditional positive regard—or at least a neutral attitude to start with—invites honest sharing.